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Us is no more!

wrightsara0305

I dont know what to do but I'm devistated by the disconnect between me and my babies father. There is no us anymore. Between the resentment and anger of his uninvolved self. But him wanting to bark what we shoukd start doing or stop doing. Or even his lack of being present with our now 2 and a half yr old girl. He wants to push the buggy when we go shopping . it angers me and I feel like no way. He has to earn his right to be a show off father. You do nothin or completely handsoff at home, in my heart he doesnt have the right to show her off. Am I crazy for feeling this way. Help. I dont want him to even snuggle me in bed. He thinks being intimate in bed will fix us. Thats the last thing I want. So we grow further and further apart. Some advice please. I want us to work out. But his lack of involvement with our child. Makes it impossible for me to want to be around him.
Dec 21, 2018 @ 02:33 pm

3 Replies


Kaylaoliver50

Im sorry

If I where in that situation I would try and sit down and talk about whats gking on communication is the key maybe counciling would help .
Dec 21, 2018 @ 06:40 pm
Samdem24

Some advice hope it helps

Maybe you guys should try to communicate. There are always more struggle when you have a little one to care for. Maybe get a baby sitter and try a date night. You have to look inside yourself and see what you want and explain it. So maybe you guys can meet a middle ground. Counseling sometimes help if you need a mediator
Dec 22, 2018 @ 09:54 am
wrightsara0305

I've tried!

I've tried talking to him. I've suggested... I spoke softly.. I poured my heart out in messenger about my wanting him to be a more present hands on daddy....if he even reads the whole thing..or looks up from his phone every few words...if he doesn't throw up his defensive mode and start yelling so I shut up and walk off for the sake of my daughter... He sends off vibes of I'm interrupting him... So I hold it in..hold it in..and then explode....biting my tongue is the hardest thing to do sometimes. Cause he sees it as "he won" when that's not the case at all... I shut down and walk away because of my daughter. He doesn't care if she's right next to him..he will yell as loud as he can till he gets his point across.. And I'm not perfect..ive lost my cool and yelled right there next to my daughter... But when I give him the chance to look stop ur scaring her calm down.. Reminding him his daughter is in room... He doesn't care one bit... And continues to yell. So all of it in a nut shell.. I feel we are a lost cause... And I need to jump if the opportunity arises and remove us. Thanks ladies for your words...
Dec 22, 2018 @ 09:27 pm

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